[understanding of opportunity -53]: Yang Mou stands up and plots to defend himself

Catalog

The first 1 Chapter The fusion of yin and Yang is the law of nature , It's big “ Avenue ”

The first 2 Chapter How to balance yin and Yang ？

2.1  Gentlemen and villains are mixed , Can we just do something big

2.2  Neither restrict others , Nor is it limited by people , Such a person can be free

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The first 1 Chapter The fusion of yin and Yang is the law of nature , It's big “ Avenue ”

《 I Ching series 》 Some words ：“ One Yin and one Yang is called Tao , The successor is good , Success is also .”

stay 《 Zhouyi · Thai hexagram 》 There is a point mentioned in ：“ Inner Yang and vulva , Healthy inside and smooth outside , A gentleman inside but a villain outside , Gentleman Taoist priest , Xiaohumanitarianism also .

Yin and Yang represent the opposite of everything in the world , Although the two contain each other .

But to some extent, it can also be the unity of opposites , Finally derived “ Avenue ”.

That is to say, two different aspects that seem to be opposite , It's not different .

If you neutralize the two , Then a new thing will emerge .

The original meaning of this sentence is to teach us how to behave , That is, the highest state of being a man is to combine hardness and softness , Unity of contradictions .

Everything that survives is a combination of Yang and Yin ; Too hard is easy to break , If you are too soft, you will not stand .

A person who really knows how to behave , It is often a gentleman and a villain “ A combination ”,

A gentleman is the positive side , The villain is its negative side .

Half gentleman, half villain , Stand up with Yang ,

Defend yourself with conspiracy , Villain outside , Inner gentleman ,

Then this kind of talent is a real interpersonal master ！

The first 2 Chapter How to balance yin and Yang ？

Yang Mou stands , Plot for self-defense .

Do not harm others , The heart of prevention is indispensable .

Don't harm people , Don't hurt people , Nor is it limited by people .

“ good ” The biggest reason why people are entrapped is “ good ” People are too rigid , Don't know how to protect yourself ！！！

2.1  Gentlemen and villains are mixed , Can we just do something big

as everyone knows , The way of life of a gentleman and a villain is quite different .

The ancients have summed up many views , such as ：“ A gentleman despises small profits and values great righteousness , Villains value small profits over great righteousness .”、“ A hedge between keeps friendship green , The friendship between villains is as sweet as honey ”、“ A gentleman is alone , Villains go hand in hand ” wait .

In contrast , Unexpected places are exposed

However , If we can take our own essence , Discard the dregs , Then the final effect can be surprisingly good .

（1） A gentleman values righteousness over profit , Although evil is like hatred , But because of being too lofty , that “ There is no fish when the water is clean , There is no one who observes ”, Naturally, you can't harmonize your relationship with others ;

（2） Villains value profits over righteousness , The way of making a living is shamed by gentlemen , But their special advantage is that they are good at exploring people's hearts , Do what you like , Although the development with others is the intersection of interests , But they will also get a lot of friends .

About the way of life of gentlemen and villains , What is better or weak , This is particularly evident in the workplace .

If we can “ gentleman ” and “ Villain ” Their conduct is mixed .

Be strict with yourself with the morality of a gentleman , At the same time, it is widely popular with villains , Such an outer circle and an inner side , It will not lose the bottom line of the principle of being a man , You can also deal with complex interpersonal relationships , Both , Why not do it ？

2.2  Neither restrict others , Nor is it limited by people , Such a person can be free

Don't harm people , Don't hurt people , Nor is it limited by people .

Do not harm others , The heart of prevention is indispensable .

A gentleman does not stand under a dangerous wall .

The proverbs above all illustrate an idea ：

Good people are good people 、 While doing good things , Learn to protect yourself , Don't let yourself fall into endless 、 In the risk of losing control .

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