What if you are always bullied because you are too honest in the workplace?

First , Be honest in the unit 、 tell the truth 、 Do honest things , Not a weakness , On the contrary, it is an advantage , in the course of time , Will win widespread trust and praise . But everything should be measured 、 There's a bottom line , Can't be honest enough to be bullied , So-called “ People are good at being bullied and horses are good at being ridden ” That is . What do I do ？

As mentioned above, because of the image of this kind of old man , As a result, he suffered all kinds of grievances and the brand of his colleagues , Should we be good people in the workplace ？ How to do so that you won't be bullied in the workplace ？

To tell you today 4 A way not to be bullied .

1、 Our principle in the workplace is to do things with a high profile , Low key personhood

The first is to do things with a high profile , Whether we encounter unreasonable work arrangements or unfair work treatment , We should all dare to speak out our objections , We have to be brave to say .

Low key personhood , Whether it's us or our colleagues , When leaders or partners get along , We should all maintain a modest heart and an easy-going attitude .

2、 Don't be afraid of what matters , Those colleagues with backgrounds

Especially some colleagues , Like to use chicken feathers as arrows , Always used to assign tasks to you , I'll tell you , Who is this , Which leader arranged what I asked you to do , Don't be fooled by him at this time , You can also learn to be smooth , You can tell him ： Is it? ？ Then I'll check with the leader of XXX , Or you can tell him , I went to the leader of XX just now , He told me that you should do these things , Then he arranged other things for me , Facing such colleagues , We must resolutely refuse , Because once you have the first time, you will have the second time , The most terrible thing is that once you don't help them in the future , They will hate you in their hearts , From asking for your help to taking it for granted .

3、 When you are attending a colleague party or some public occasions , There are always a few colleagues , He will force you to do something you don't want to do

For example, at dinner , They will keep persuading you to drink , Maybe because you are a newcomer in the workplace , Or because of thin skin , Sorry to get together , You should know the person who persuades you to drink at the wine table , They must not be your friends , They just want to see you make a fool of yourself , At this time, we can drink whenever we can , If you can't drink, just refuse , Don't want to make friends at the wine table .

4、 Not all colleagues can become your confidants to say something from their hearts

We need to know that we come to work to make money , Instead of making friends , Sociologically speaking , The relationship between colleagues is almost equal to the relationship between strangers , Would you pull a stranger to talk to him in the street , And more importantly, one day you may have a good relationship with your colleagues , Because of the competition for employment , You will be the opposite , At this time, the little secrets you once told him will become some of his handles to check and balance you .

Finally, we should not be honest in the workplace , Don't be a prick , Be clear about your bottom line and interests , And we want to be valuable people in the team , Only in this way can others really respect , Willing to make friends with you .

To sum up , The weak make friends , The strong share the benefits .