Issue 5: the second essential skill for College Students

Hello everyone , I'm Lao Wang. Chat with me , Today's topic for discussion with you —— What preparations do college students need to make before entering the job ？

Through this time, I can communicate with the students in the group , I found that many people are not very clear about their career goals and directions , In short , Just confused . What can college students do in advance to achieve their career goals ？

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Catalog

What is interpersonal communication

Why should we improve our communication skills

Communication first ： interview

The second level of communication ： colleagues

The third level of communication ： Leader

How can college students improve their communication skills

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  Lao Wang talked with everyone yesterday One of the vocational skills preparation for college students in advance : Excel、Word、PPT. Today, I want to talk about the second need to improve skills , And this skill will determine whether you can develop better in your future career .

We all know , Four years of University , It is the most intense psychological change in one's life 、 One of the most obvious periods , If you can't correctly evaluate yourself and others 、 Cannot choose and develop oneself correctly , It will affect your life .

Enter the University , We are facing a new environment , At the same time, we are also facing new challenges . Far away from home , Study and live in school , In this environment , Good interpersonal relationship is particularly important . This is not just our normal study , The security of life , It is also our deep need for self-development . To meet this need , First of all, we should have our own understanding and understanding of interpersonal communication and interpersonal relationship theory .

What is interpersonal communication

The so-called interpersonal communication refers to individuals in society , Between individuals and the masses and between individuals and groups , Use linguistic and nonverbal symbols to exchange views , Exchange messages , Convey ideas , Express feelings and needs , So as to produce a dynamic process of mutual influence in psychology and behavior .

Interpersonal relationship is in every corner of social life , Different interpersonal relationships contain the same factors . Interpersonal communication and interpersonal relationship are connected . Interpersonal communication is the premise and foundation of interpersonal relationship . People in real life , It is necessary to have various forms of communication with others .

Here is a quote from Marx ：“ People not only affect nature in production , It also affects each other . They can only act together in the necessary way , To produce . For production , People connect with each other , Only in this connection , To have their impact on nature , In order to have production .”

Why should we improve our communication skills

Lao Wang talks about the three-tier relationship in the workplace —— interview 、 Colleagues and leaders .

Communication first ： interview

Enter the workplace after graduation , The resume that needs to be delivered in the first level is HR Take a fancy to , The second level needs to be liked by the interviewer during the interview , There are two important abilities involved ： Written expression ability and oral communication ability . These two abilities are also the abilities that any post must have in the workplace .

The second level of communication ： colleagues

After passing the interview , The people we deal with most every day are the colleagues around us . Communication technology 、 Communicate business 、 How to coordinate and organize, etc. all these require us to have a certain degree of communication .

The third level of communication ： Leader

As an ordinary staff member in time , There may also be a time to report to the leader , How to communicate effectively with leaders at this time , How can you effectively convey the meaning you want to express to leaders , This is a higher level of communication skills .

How can college students improve their communication skills

From his personal experience, Lao Wang , During college, college students can read more 、 Practice writing more to improve your written expression ability ; In addition, you can participate in the student union 、 Community or class cadres to improve personal oral communication skills . Of course, if there are more internship opportunities , That can better exercise your oral expression ability .