What should I do without 50W bride price

Hello everyone , I'm brother CAI .

Just after the Spring Festival , As people who have reached the age of getting married and even being urged to marry, we also began to discuss a topic that has existed since ancient times “ Betrothal gifts ”！

This morning, , See a circle of friends brushing the screen B standing UP Main video “ No, 50W Betrothal gifts , My girlfriend was forcibly dragged away , What am I gonna do? ”, After watching the video, I just want to say “******”！

https://www.bilibili.com/video/BV1HR4y1775Z

We've been together 6 Years. , Through efforts , We had our own house last year , Start planning to set up a family . To reassure her mother , The name of the house is filled in by her . But we still encountered strong opposition , Unless 50w Betrothal gifts , Even if we sell our house, we have to raise enough money .

In the afternoon 4 spot ,B The comments on this video have reached as high as 1 ten thousand More than one , But also on the microblog hot search ！

This time, , We use it Python Collect it B Station comments , Also see how different netizens view this matter and this topic ！

Catalog ：

1. The most liked comments

except up Beyond the Lord's own comments , We can see that the most likes and comments are in 2022-02-12 06:58:30（ Relatively early ） come from B Station user name No Kanno Net friends of , He sighed “ I thought it was a happy couple plus a large group . The result is also a hard-working man struggling in reality .”.

（ This one is missing ）

Xiao Bian knows this from his circle of friends UP The Lord's friend knows ,UP The owner keeps many cats, dogs and small animals , Daily videos are very warm and happy ！

therefore , This morning UP The main video has directly broken the defense of many netizens who pay attention to him , You can see this simple comment , exactly …

Another one is called Lele is my baby Comments from female netizens , Combine your own positive experience .

come from Wuyi Wuyi The comments , In fact, from this video, the woman is more difficult , After all, such a native family is there , It's a bit like the previous TV series 《 Ode to joy 》 Fan shengmei's family in , I just hope there are fewer and fewer such families , I hope such a family can be eased ！

2. Make some of the earliest comments

The video release time is 2022-02-12 05:50:58, The earliest comments were published less than 1 Minutes later .

ctime	content	like	uname	sex
2022-02-12 05:51:48	Sleepless people have surprises ？	4	A hundred miles of peach blossom	A secret
2022-02-12 05:51:48	ah ？	1	L-whywhywhy	A secret
2022-02-12 05:51:49	Don't call the police first ？	1	smile One XAXED	A secret
2022-02-12 05:51:54	None of them can endure	0	Give me a name	male
2022-02-12 05:51:57	My day, ..	1	_ Love yourself very much	A secret
2022-02-12 05:51:59	The victory of the immortals party	0	Wood clam	Woman
2022-02-12 05:52:06	Oh my god , What is this?	1	The withering season	A secret
2022-02-12 05:52:07	Oh my god ！！！ I thought it was the story of the title party dog cat, but I didn't expect it to be true ！！ The sleeping trough is terrible	6227	Sweet tail River	Woman
2022-02-12 05:52:12	The plot is very abstract	1	In the black land	A secret
2022-02-12 05:52:18	Sleepless people have surprises	1	Li Er Pang Goo Goo	A secret

3. All comment keywords

Use our 《 Word cloud drawing tool 》 Draw the cloud map of key words for comments , You can see Parents It is the core of netizens' comments , Everyone is encouraging Woman want come on. , A lot of people Up The LORD said little does one think .

And there is Luo Xiang Teachers are mentioned more , Because he was B Standing too hot , And there have been views on betrothal gifts .

Actually , The bride price itself is right and wrong , The sky high bride price and the fact that you can't take back your parents “ Targeted ” Of ！

4. Time distribution of comments

After this video was released , In fact, it has always been highly concerned , With the passage of time, its heat is getting higher and higher . After all , Although this situation is extreme, it will not be an example , And many people will actually experience similar possible situations .

5. Luo Xiang's quotations （ About betrothal gifts ）

https://www.bilibili.com/video/BV1Hh411Y7Cw/

Many places now receive betrothal gifts to marry girls , Do you know where in China the bride price is the lowest ？ Which province or city wants the lowest bride price ？ The bride price demanded by Guangdong Province is the lowest . In some places, the bride price is quite high , In some places, the betrothal gifts are colorful and a little green , Ten thousand purple bills , Purple is a few pieces ,5 The block ; Qianhong , full ,100 The block , That's it 10 Ten thousand pieces ; A little green , How much is green ,50 Of . So it takes more than 100000 yuan to marry at least one daughter-in-law , Hundreds of thousands of . Do you think so ？ In fact, it is more for many families , In particular, it is a heavy burden on rural families . People think this is selling girls or marrying girls ？ This is still marrying a daughter , It doesn't seem to be interpreted as selling . Because the law still needs to consider the actual needs of social life . But there is also a situation in judicial practice that is to let go , As a result, I colluded with this woman , I bought her to the Zhang San family today 5 Ten thousand pieces , Tomorrow she will fly back and sell it to the Lisi family , This is fraud .

6. National bride price map

This is the official account Grain Rain Data stay 2020 The national bride price map released in , Now it is estimated that it has risen a lot ！

7. Complete crawler code

Attach complete crawler code , Errors may be reported during operation , Specific or related to B Station anti climbing , You can check the error prompt by yourself debug！

import requests     
import re
import json
import pandas as pd

def get_json_data(page):
    url = 'https://api.bilibili.com/x/v2/reply/main?'
    headers = {
    
        "User-Agent": "Mozilla/5.0 (Windows NT 10.0; Win64; x64) AppleWebKit/537.36 (KHTML, like Gecko) Chrome/87.0.4280.66 Safari/537.36",
        "referer": "https://www.bilibili.com/video/BV1HR4y1775Z"
        }
    params = {
    
        'callback': 'jQuery17206752522958787988_1644651682110',
        'jsonp': 'jsonp',
        'next': page,
        'type': 1,
        'oid': 338896747,
        'mode': 2,
        'plat': 1,
        '_': 1644654903971
        } 
    resp = requests.get(url, headers=headers, params=params)
    
    text = resp.text
    json_str = re.findall(r'\(({.*})\)', text)[0]
    json_data = json.loads(json_str)
    return json_data


data = get_json_data(1)['data']
#  Total comments 
total = data['cursor']['all_count']
#  Total number of comment pages 
pages = total//20
df = pd.DataFrame(columns=['id','content','ctime','like','uname','sex','mid'])
for page in range(pages):
    print(page)
    data = get_json_data(page)
    replies = data['data']['replies']
    for reply in replies:
        df = df.append({
    
                'id':reply['rpid'],
                'content':reply['content']['message'],
                'ctime':reply['ctime'],
                'like':reply['like'],
                'uname':reply['member']['uname'],
                'sex':reply['member']['sex'],
                'mid':reply['member']['mid'],    
                },
                ignore_index=True
                )
df['ctime'] = pd.to_datetime(df['ctime'], unit='s') + pd.Timedelta(days=8/24)
df.drop_duplicates(inplace=True)
df.to_excel('50 A kaleidoscope of gifts .xlsx',index=None)

That's all of this , Xiaobian thinks there is a saying that is very good “ Betrothal gifts and dowries should be the starting funds for a better life and development of a newly married family , It should not be a means of one parent for personal gain ”.

Last , Wish all lovers get married ！