[Repost] Marry a man must marry a man whose salary is at least 3571.4 yuan higher than yours

In general, if a man's salary is less than twice that of his wife, he cannot provide his wife with better material conditions than when he was single.
This is not a myth, but a fact that many men in embarrassing situations with low incomes may be too embarrassed to talk about, or perhaps unaware of.
Of course, this theory only applies to men and women who are both physically and mentally healthy and whose income is about a moderately prosperous level. Those with physical disabilities and special circumstances that are very unfilial are not taken into account.
Okay, let's do a calculation. Suppose the woman's monthly income is 4,000 yuan, and the man's monthly income is 7,000 yuan.
First of all, we must make it clear that it is the obligation of every conscientious person to support their parents. A wife who has no moral problems will not deduct the expenses of her husband for honoring her parents. Similarly, a wife should honor her parents.The husband also has no right to dissatisfaction.And filial piety to parents should be done according to one’s ability. Filial children usually pay monthly living expenses, and the amount of living expenses is closely related to their children’s income. Naturally, they can only earn 500 per month and cannot give them all to their parents.And if the monthly income is more than 100,000 yuan, it would be too stingy to give only 500 yuan to the parents. Therefore, we calculate the living cost of supporting the parents according to the percentage of the children's income, and 30% is not an excessive requirement.
Therefore, the woman's monthly net income becomes 4000-4000*0.3=2800 yuan
The man's monthly net income becomes 7000-7000*0.3=4900 yuan
The total income is 7700 yuan
Secondly, a normal family needs to raise children. Dink's marriages exist in China, but not many, and it is not the situation we want to discuss here.The cost of raising and educating children is staggering.How much does it cost to raise a child? Quoting an article on February 12, a research report titled "The Economic Cost of Children: Structural Change and Optimization in the Transition Period" pointed out that from the direct economicIn terms of cost, the total cost of raising a child between the ages of 0 and 16 will reach about 250,000 yuan; if it is estimated that the family expenses for children to go to colleges and universities, it will be as high as 480,000 yuan; and the total cost of unmarried children before the age of 30 who are not in school is estimated., the figure is 490,000 yuan."Ok, it's impossible for a child from a well-off family not to go to school. It's quite normal to raise 480,000 yuan until the age of 16. Hehe, let's not mention that the child is sick. If he fails to pass the exam, he will have to pay a sponsorship fee.And so on. This will cost about 30,000 yuan per year on children, and the average is at least 2,500 yuan per month. We don't count the more expensive ones for university graduate students for the time being. Oh, if you count them, I'm afraid it will rise to 3,000. .......
Therefore, the total income is 7700-2500=5200 yuan
Then, the property of husband and wife is common, but the total of 5200 yuan for two people is actually equivalent to only 2600
yuan per person.
GoodNow I can see that if a woman earning 4,000 marries a man who earns 7,000, her monthly disposable material condition is 2,600 yuan. If this woman is single, her monthly disposable material condition isIt is 4000-4000*0.3=2800 yuan. Just from the perspective of material level, her quality of life has not only not improved, but has declined.
After a rough calculation, it can be found that only if the husband earns at least 7571.4 yuan, he canMake the wife's controllable material conditions reach the same standard of 2800 as before marriage.
And when the husband's income reaches twice the wife's, which is 8000 yuan, he can make his wife's controllable material conditions reach 2950 yuan,Only 150 yuan more than the unmarried status.
So, in general, if a man's salary is less than twice that of his wife, he can't provide his wife with better material conditions than when she was single.
The above discussion is just pure money, pure material conditions. If you add the quality of life into it, it will be another look. A good husband who can be considerate of his wife and wife to share housework and educate their children is nothing more than a warmhearted husband.Being considerate can make women feel more at ease. Those who rely on their own earning a little more money to boss, push all housework to their wives, die without cooking for women, and never wake up in the middle of the night to take care of crying children always let their wivesThose who go to work will add a heavy burden to the already degraded quality of life of their wives.
Therefore, some men who slander women for money, please see clearly, many women go into marriage to raise children for menNot only did they not get any material benefits, but they made huge sacrifices. Compared with this sacrifice, they made little financial demands on men before they got married. They did not worship money at all, they really worshiped moneyI won't get into such a loss-making marriage!