Quickly find five channels for high-quality objects, quickly collect and avoid detours

As a person who has been dating for many years , I took many detours on the way to take off the order , Tried a lot of off order methods . In the end, the paper summarizes the research results 5 An effective and practical off order channel can be used as a reference for you on the off order road ：

1、 Relatives and friends introduce

Through the introduction of the blind date, the object will basically know the root , More reliable , At the same time, the matching degree in all aspects is higher . Because of the checks and endorsements of relatives and friends , As long as the other side's reputation is not bad , Don't repel , See if you can , The success rate of this off order is usually high . But the resources I introduced by the matchmaker at that time were limited , Lack of some selectivity . And even if it is not suitable for face, I will reluctantly accept and understand it first , It's a waste of time . If you are introduced by your relatives and friends, it will be much more reliable , If it is introduced by an unrelated matchmaker , Less reliable .

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2、 Choose reliable dating software

For less time , If you have some social difficulties, you might as well try dating software to get rid of the order , But the dating platform is mixed , Choosing the right platform is the key . At the same time, maintain the necessary vigilance , Pay attention to the information of the other party . I have used so many social software , Feel like a couple 、only Marriage and love 、 These three meetings are quite reliable , All must be registered under the real name system .

A companion , Information review is stricter than other platforms , Everyone is rushing to get married , You can feel the sincerity of the other party when communicating .

only Marriage and love , There are many white-collar users , High quality , The atmosphere of making friends is pure and clean .

meet , There is a one key matching function , The person that matches inside , The conditions are similar to my own , The information is detailed .

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3、 Student gathering and fellowship activities

If you graduate from a good school , Can actively participate in the classmate party , Or fellowship activities organized by the Alumni Association , You can also join the alumni group . I joined the alumni group after graduation , Also participated in many offline activities in the group , Be able to meet people with a common educational background , High authenticity , Full sincerity , But the circle of acquaintance is still limited , The number is not very large , Group activity is not very strong .

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4、 Hobby

For example, pay attention to the theater in the city / The coffee shop / Ballad bar, wait for the official account , They will hold some activities regularly , These venues are gathering places for young artists , It is also easy to generate feelings in the process of interaction . Today's cafes are no longer as simple as eating and drinking in the past , Some coffee shops hold a variety of colorful activities , The coffee shop is a Book Club , speech , Poetry Club , The signing meeting is a good venue , Next time, if you go to sit down , You can leave the owner's contact information , There are activities for him to inform you .

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5、 Participate in on-site dating meetings

It is usually a public welfare association organized by the government or work units , The registration form is very detailed and has certain verification , It is also reliable . But it was a hurry to attend the meeting , There's a lot of chance . There is also a non-public blind date , To pay or pay in disguise to participate in , This method can be used to recognize more heterosexuals . However, most of the people who come to offline blind date meetings are ordinary , Not demanding or demanding , It is not difficult to find an object . But if the requirements are high , For example, female students require male students to have a house, a car, a registered permanent residence and a higher education , Boys require girls to be beautiful and cultivated , It is not easy to meet the demand here , Unless it is a high-end blind date with strong pertinence .

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