Four years after graduation: work, resign, get married, buy a house

graduation         

         Today four years ago , I still remember clearly , It was a Saturday .
         It was an ordinary day , I carry my schoolbag from my school days , Stepped into the lecture hall on the fourth floor of beacon . I am full of expectation , I hope I can do something here . What I didn't expect was , This day has become an eternal day . This day faded green , Bring maturity ; From hot-blooded youth , Embark on learning to become ordinary .

 

Work

        The first job always starts with the dirtiest and most tiring job , I came from a little white , Step into DBA department , Started the first stage of work .

        This period of work is confused , Nervous and full . Confusion is confusion about the unknown content of work , Because I don't understand. , So I don't know how to start . But it's okay , The first job gave me the greatest tolerance , Let me grow , Let me learn , Let me adapt to the pace of work .

        At that time, I was quite interested in overtime and business travel , Sometimes I can stay in the company alone 11 spot , I don't seem to know fatigue . Compared with overtime , The hardest part is probably going on business . Business trips are always not so friendly , Unfriendly people , Unfriendly work , Unfriendly endless problems cannot be handled . Walking alone on the way to work , Not willing to take a taxi , Just want to walk around .  Then I thought , Go ahead , I came here to solve the problem . If you don't understand, you start to grope , Start testing , Try to think , Try to change the status quo .

         Two years down , I tried my best , But it didn't receive the due return , Suddenly I don't know whether what I did is right or wrong . Every time I go on business , We need to face the local leaders who have quarreled with each other with a smile , It's torture to be there . But it also gave me growth , During that time, I was busy 、 hard 、 depressed 、 A period of discouragement .

quit

        There are many reasons for leaving , In fact, the main reason is that I want to change the status quo . Start a new direction .

        After a few weeks of work , It seems that this is not what I want . It didn't take long for me to start the handover work with the resignation of a colleague . from DBA Switch from localization data to big data operation and maintenance , Lack of experience , Handover work also makes me feel overwhelmed .

        Looking at the resignation of a colleague , The inner suffering also makes me sit still . I also want to leave , I want to change my working environment . At this time, it reminds me of the words of my graduation tutor , Under the persuasion of friends , I stayed . But it's OK here , Leaders have never embarrassed me , Do what you can , Don't do what you can't do . Work is always done according to one's ability , But the work content has also become no growth .

        There is no 996, Weekends are routine . It's the first time I know 8 Points from work , and 9 It's different to get off work at o'clock . This kind of working time also foreshadows my marriage .

license

        Maomao always says , Oh my god , I've been with you “ The pig ” Got it . Yeah , So we got married .

        From the first day of blind date , To formalize the relationship , To get married , Time is very short , But there are many contradictions . We have different experiences , Different living habits , Can go to the moment of getting the certificate , There is also a lot of tolerance in . Our process is not perfect , But it all ended in reconciliation . Everyone is an independent individual , Mutual tolerance can make a family .

buy a house

        The house in Nanjing is quite expensive , Down payment is very difficult . Thank Maomao and his family for their support , I also thank my parents for their support , Finally, thank Gangzi for his support , Without you , This house is also impossible for us . We also have our own home in Nanjing , May this home be our warm harbor .

motion

        I'm no longer the teenager with ice cream and hot pot . With age , The topic of health is getting more and more important .996 It has brought me a lot of physical problems , Now I want to cherish my body . Again, I wish every programmer friend , Cherish the body , Stay away from 996.