Following the crowd hurts you

The male number on it 「 Acer Lang 」, It's a spare number for me , In case the big one loses contact one day , I usually send about three of my thoughts a week , Reading notes , Cognitive perception and other articles , Lead us to explore the road of spiritual and financial freedom .

people , Actually, it is a very strange animal , Most people are doing things with duplicity , It is always difficult to unify what you really love and what you are currently doing . That's why most people are anxious , Causes of pain .

Why is this so ？ Conformity is a very important reason . Because I want to be recognized by everyone , Because I don't want others to feel that I am an alien , They often lose self thinking and self-examination .

When your inner love is inconsistent with your work , It is difficult for a man to succeed .

Conformity , We lose ourselves , Lose character , Is no longer one of the most important reasons for oneself , Pier philosopher erichoffer said ： Through identification , A man is no longer himself , And become part of something eternal .

such as ： Many of us are unhappy , The unhappiness of work is caused by the herd mentality , What industry is hot , Just do what you do ？ What kind of high salary , Just look for a job ？ Parents , And even the relatives and friends around me , Just do it yourself , So as not to appear out of place , Will be recognized by everyone .

But I just don't ask myself from my heart ： What on earth do I like ？ in my opinion , Although the road of conformity feels to be the most easily recognized road by the society , however , It is also the most crowded road , The most difficult path to success , Instead, doing what you like is the easiest way to succeed , Even if this matter is very small , however , It's not crowded , And once done , The scarcity value is also high .

I have always believed in this sentence ： Independent thinking , Pursue your favorite things , You are the easiest to be happy , And most likely to succeed .

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