A man always becomes a man and a man always arrives (progress, harvest, growth, self-confidence)

【 Chen Xi has to work hard 】：hello Hello, I'm Chen Xi , I'm glad you came to read , Nickname is the hope that you can constantly improve , Moving forward to good programmers ！

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️ This article summarizes my achievements in the past two years

Before graduation , I have a lot of anxiety just like my peers , confused , Constant annoyance , I don't know what to learn , I don't know what I can do , I don't know if I can find a job I like , Fear of conflict , Fear of being criticized , Until the official start of work

In the past two years, the work intensity and pace have been very fast ,996 I have also experienced countless times , But the real work brings me infinite fun , The harvest is far greater than the experience of reading , I hope to share my harvest with you who read the article , Progress together , Grow up together

Cultivate growth thinking

《 Lifelong growth 》 It talks about growth thinking and fixed thinking

Growth minded people prefer to believe that things are not the same , Everything is viewed from a developmental perspective

Fixed thinking people stubbornly hold their own views , I feel that I can't change even if I take action

These two ways of thinking are common to everyone , Only when encountering problems, they behave more or less , The most important thing for us personally is to cultivate our own growth thinking , Reduce our fixed way of thinking

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The journey to a growth mindset

① Accept ： Everyone's thinking mode is a mixture of fixed type and growth type , You should accept some of your own fixed thinking patterns .

② Observe ： Identify the events and scenes that stimulate your fixed mode of thinking .

③ name ： Give a name to the event or scene that inspires a fixed mode of thinking .

④ education ： Use growth thinking to educate fixed thinking mode

Read more about 《 Lifelong growth 》 This book , Super recommendation

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Cultivate insensitivity

Insensitivity was invented by Japanese writer Junichi Watanabe . According to Watanabe Junichi's own explanation ,“ Insensitive force ” It can be translated into “ The power of dullness ”, That is, calmly face the setbacks and pain in life , Move firmly in your own direction , yes “ The means and wisdom to win a better life ”.

I am afraid of making mistakes before I work , Fear of problems , Of course, after starting work , Facing the time pressure of various nodes , Environmental pressure , Conflicts, etc

When I found that I focused my thinking on solving problems , There is less stress and worry

summary ： Don't be too sensitive in the working process , Learn to focus on things , Do a good job ！

Encounter conflict , Be criticized , Given pressure , Don't feel sorry for yourself ！ The core idea ： Do a good job , Think about how to solve the problem ！ And then solve the problem ！

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First believe , See again

I believe that the greater value of hard work is to cultivate our good quality , Let's become confident , These are all gains beyond making money , And have greater value !

These cognitive gains come from 《 flow 》《 Dry method 》 These books

I would like to believe that hard work can bring more gains , I prefer to devote myself to my daily work , At the same time, seriously study and reflect , Nature brings me more sense of fulfillment ！

What if I don't find a job I like ？

Be serious about your current job , At the same time, try to believe that you can find a job you love more , Daily reflection , Work for it ！

He who has done so often becomes , Travelers often come to . It means that people who work hard can often succeed , People who are tireless can often achieve their goals , come from 《 Yanzi spring and Autumn period · The internal part is miscellaneous 》. I hope I can read more in the next six months , More growth , Make more friends , Upward progress ！ See you in the future ！

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May we go in our own love ！