Written before father's Day

    Before you know it , I have been a father for more than a year . Remember the night the little guy was born , I really can't use a word or phrase to describe . Only a father can understand . When I'm on the form “ Relationship ” Fill in the column “ Father and son ” Two words , At that moment I felt a kind of holiness , Also feel responsible .

    After returning from a business trip , I have been spending more time on my son . I feel that he has grown up , I began to have my own character . Education is becoming more and more important from now on . When I am with my son , I always think of my father . I always remember our childhood , How he taught us .

    I have read some articles , As a son, it seems that there is the only picture of a father crying in front of his son . So am I . That time my father was crying for his father . A few years ago , My father was hospitalized for an operation , I accompanied him in the ward that night . We talked a lot , Also talked about Grandpa . Grandpa is with my dad 8 He died of illness at the age of , in my opinion , Dad may not have much impression of Grandpa . But chatting and chatting , Dad began to feel sad , Suddenly I said that I didn't think of taking a picture of my grandpa . Said , Tears came down . This is the only time I have seen my father cry . That's true. , His impression of grandpa has been blurred , Maybe he wanted to , If there are photos , At least I can remember what grandpa looked like . That moment , I suddenly remembered , It turns out that my father is also a son of man . He hasn't felt his father's warmth for a long time . Grandma once told me about my grandpa . He is a man who only knows how to work , And a person with a bad temper . I used to think my dad wouldn't miss such people , At least for me , Grandpa is just a concept , It's just a person I had hoped to have . But for my father , Father or father . He also longed for the love of his father , He may have forgotten what fatherly love is like . My heart is very sad .

    When you become someone else's father , I keep remembering , Remembering everything about my dad . A man who can't remember what his father's love is , Can give us such deep and meticulous love , I really admire him . When I don't know how to be a good father , He is my best friend . And when he must have been at a loss , What can he do ？ Later I found the answer from his old books .

    Tell me about my father . He is a quiet person , Sometimes I make a little joke , But people who don't have a great sense of humor . He is upright 、 generous , Very open-minded , And know a lot （ Electrician 、 carpentry 、 Understand hydraulic engineering ）, Often make some small ideas to improve the inconvenient places in life .40 When I was many years old , Although I don't know English , But he just learned computer with us . Their office has gone from pure paper to computer automation , He almost started it first , And oneortwo years earlier than the government's propaganda of paperless office . Of course he is not perfect , But in my subconscious mind, I always aim at him , I feel that as long as I become a person like him, I am very satisfied . As a person , I dare not comment on him ; But as a father , He is absolutely excellent . He gave us everything he could give us , But don't indulge us ; Teach us to behave , But let us have an open mind to accept all new things . When my son was born , He made an expectation of his grandson “ Be a useful person ”. I think our two brothers were trained by him , It is also a useful person . I also hope I can be a father like him , Cultivate my little guy into “ Useful people ”.

    I owe my father too much , I know he doesn't want verbal or material gratitude . The only thing I can do , Is to take over his work , Be a good father , Keep his grandson healthy 、 Grow up happily , Let the little guy be as honest as he is 、 A generous person .