Emotional crisis, my friend's online dating girlfriend wants to break up with him, ask me what to do

Emotional crisis

Today, a friend of mine was very sad. He approached me and said that his girlfriend was breaking up with him.He doesn't have much experience with this kind of thing, so he asked me if I could think of a solution for him

The reason for this is this. My friend is also a blogger who writes articles. Today, after the ip territorial function is updated, his account shows that the affiliation is Shandong.However, this friend of mine is not from Shandong, but from Jiangsu.This is nothing at first, but it just happens that this location display has just been updated, and it was seen by a friend's online dating girlfriend, which is a big problem.The girlfriend was very angry and asked her friend, "Didn't you say you are from Jiangsu? Why is it written that you are from Shandong? Are you lying to me? I especially hate people who lie!"

My friend is very aggrieved. This Shandong address may have been logged into my account when I used a proxy before, so it was recorded as the proxy ip address. This is not a lie.So, he tried to explain to his girlfriend, but now the girlfriend is very angry and can't listen to anything.Girlfriend said, "I don't want to talk to you now, liar, I hate you so much right now, I want to break up with you!"

Isn't this embarrassing, so my friend came to me for help and asked me if I could do anything better

Function Explanation

As for this ip attribution function, does the displayed ip necessarily represent the current location of the account user?The answer is not necessarily.We know that although we generally use our own ip when surfing the Internet, if it is accessed through proxy ip, then the recorded address will become the proxy ip address

As for the explanation of this proxy, we can probably understand that, for example, you are in place A, but you have enabled a proxy in place B, and then access it through the proxy. At this time, you first send a request to place B in place A,Then, B sends the target request to C. At this time, C returns the request to B, and then B returns the request to A.At this time, the person who really made the request is A, but the request received by target C came from B, so the ip recorded at C, that is, B, is not the ip of the real requester A

As for the record of ip territorial, as I have mentioned before, it is nothing more than a balance between two methods. Either choose the ip address of the last login, or choose the ip address of the long-term login, the information that can be displayed is limited.So, like this friend's situation, it is true that the person is in Jiangsu, but because the proxy ip was used to log in in Shandong before, it is displayed as Jiangsu.Now, a friend's girlfriend may not understand this, so what?

As for me, I also thought of a way, "Actually, it's not too difficult, then you should log in again and update the IP location to the correct one, won't you?"

New troubles

A friend thought, yes, instead of explaining it, it's better to update the ip location to the correct one, so I quickly logged into my account and modified the information.Fortunately, the IP address of the last login is currently used, not the long-term IP address.So, it has been updated correctly now, can you relieve your girlfriend?

However, things didn't go so well.Although the ip attribution was updated correctly, I explained to my girlfriend why the wrong address was displayed before.But the friend's girlfriend was still not happy, she said, "Although I think what you said is very reasonable, how do I know if what you said is true? If you are really from Shandong, it is because you haveThe display function was temporarily changed to Jiangsu, what should I do? Are you still lying to me?"

It's done, it's done, Barbie Q's done, it's done, it's done.This is really unclear.However, I don't think it's a big problem.After all, it may just be a momentary misunderstanding by the girlfriend, and she feels that she has no face, and it will be fine after a while.In short, between feelings, we should tolerate each other, understand each other, and be less suspicious, so that we can get better

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How should the ip attribution function be implemented?Many friends are also very concerned.But I have written about it in the previous article, if you are interested, you can take a look at my previous article How is the function of ip attribution realized