After reading the book reading methods

The whole book , Although the title of the book is 《 The way to read 》, It's a bit like listing the famous sayings of various schools , And then match it with , My own reading and comprehension of good sentences , In fact, we ourselves , This is also the way to acquire knowledge through reading , Sometimes the original , It is well written and exquisite , Cause us to clap the table and exclaim , We can't help quoting their words . This book is structured like this , Of course, we also need our own understanding , This is the process of our study .

（1） We take knowledge for granted , To others is new knowledge
I remember once giving it to my third brother's children , Explain physics problems in junior high school , It is a problem of series and parallel connection of resistors , And after I read the question , I can see that it is a question of the resistance value .
Because of the inherent understanding and understanding of series parallel connection , It can be said that in very short steps , Then he thought out the answer , And explain it to the children with interest , But she is still hard to understand , So I also said all my thoughts , How did each step come about , But still get her confused little eyes .
This may be cognitive dissynchronization , Knowledge we take for granted and keep in mind , We have been learning for a long time , So much so that , It's like solidifying in our brains , Compared with the , But for children , For the children of the third brother's family , That's new knowledge .

（2） We can acquire knowledge by reading But no experience , There are always some people who can't experience the inner
We often watch movies , Or a TV play , Those who are locked up in concentration camps , Usually do everything you can , Fight wits and braves with the people who take care of them . And we usually think that people who are locked up are just , The people under supervision are unjust .
And in this book it says , Those people in the concentration camp , Those in custody , Think they're trying to escape , But the actual situation , Contrary to our feelings , Or let us unexpected , This is , We don't experience , But what we can know by reading , In wartime , In a concentration camp , What really happened at that time .
One of the books talks about a survivor of velixin , All his life, he thought it was because he stayed there , He has become very bad himself , When he was locked up , People have to obey , And the people who look after the camps , Ask them to turn in their financial , There was no beating or scolding , In a very kind tone , This makes the detainees unable to think of any reason to resist , Why not hand it in ？ Later, they were somewhat submissive , Anyone who resists will be regarded as an alien by them , Push him out of the group .

This is reminiscent of an experiment on monkeys , Said there were three monkeys in a cage , There is a banana in front of me , But this banana is connected to a switch , Just go get it ,3 Every Monkey gets an electric shock , At first the three monkeys couldn't help taking it , After being electrified , I won't go again , Evolved into an opposite state , Which monkey just tries to get , You will be severely beaten by two monkeys . There is no monkey , Then a new monkey came in , Seeing bananas is like taking , But they will be beaten by the other two immediately , I don't know why , I dare not take it , Later, monkeys were replaced in succession , All the monkeys have been replaced , But whenever a monkey wants to take a banana , Will be beaten , Even if there is no electricity , But this tradition is preserved .

I remember what the older generation said about the previous Anti Japanese war , It's still very memorable . In the TV play , Japanese devils almost as soon as they enter the village , Will keep killing and looting , But the older generation said , When he was little , In fact, the Japanese soldiers who entered the village , When entering a civilian or earthen house , Still very polite , Will put guns at the door , Then come in , Ask for a bowl of water with a ladle , In the real case , We may never be able to experience the scenes and scenes at that time , But we remember that the story really happened .

（3） Try to see what you look like in other people's eyes
“ I can't see this thing. I bumped into something else , Only when you come back will you know yourself .” When I saw this sentence , I think Yaosi Yamamoto said very well , There's a sense of urgency .
We may know ourselves too well , Or we are ourselves , So we can't see ourselves , We can look in the mirror , Yourself in the mirror , Maybe a little more beautiful , A little ugly , Get a little fat , Grow thinner , But it's all about us . But if you don't compare with others , We don't know our beauty or ugliness .
Again, you don't know your character , Or I don't know what I look like in other people's eyes , When we think deeply about our own character , It's hard for me to tell what my personality is , We have compassion , You can go through the site environment , To analyze and feel the situation of others , Through compassion , To feel the emotions of others and the joys, sorrows and joys of others , But we seldom feel ourselves , When we feel sad and painful , We only know that we feel sad and painful , That sounds a bit tongue twister .

Give me an example , I used to go back to my hometown , My father just drinks , They chattered about all kinds of things , It's drinking like crazy . There is a , At a dinner , Brothers who have dinner with Dad , That is, my second and third eldest brothers , The third uncle said that your temper is very similar to our father , You didn't swear before , I grew up. , Definitely not like him ？ Why are you leaving now , His old ways , This sentence touched me a lot , Because I saw my father's behavior after drinking , I have thought so , Don't repeat yourself , Father's situation , But now I want to come , This aspect needs to be corrected by our own efforts , On the other hand, it also shows that , He could not see his own state of drunkenness , So he didn't think it was wrong , This is a very terrible existence .
Back in this book, teacher Luo said at the end , No one is an island . Everyone is a piece of the continent , Part of the whole .
We must embed ourselves in our relationships , To know their approximate location , And what you look like to others , We do it through others , To reflect , To know ourselves , Is to know who you are in the eyes of others .

On the whole , This book is worth opening many times , Very recommended .