Characteristics of human immaturity

The characteristic of human immaturity

The first feature is that you want to pay back immediately if you pay a little
Don't know only spring sowing , Only in autumn can we harvest . When doing things , Just paid a little , I want to be rewarded immediately . Learning to do things is difficult , Give up immediately , Refuse to insist , It's hard to succeed .
No matter in learning , Still in life , You must know how to give , Don't rush for quick results . It's impossible to succeed easily . You can't expect luck to fall on your head naturally , You can't expect to change your life all at once .

The second characteristic is lack of self-discipline
The main manifestation of lack of self-discipline is not willing to change themselves . To make a difference , It is necessary to have the awareness of constantly improving their own way of thinking and behavior patterns , Awareness of changing bad habits . Actually , Most people don't have much difference in the beginning of their ability , The difference lies in the way of thinking , Different attitudes towards life .
In life you need to know , How do you treat life , What will life do to you ; How do you treat others , What other people will do to you . No one has to help you when you need it , You must make yourself independent 、 Firm .

The third characteristic is that they are often affected by emotions and cannot extricate themselves
If you are in a bad mood , It will distract your attention . Daniel · Goleman pointed out that one should succeed 20% It's on intelligence ,80% It's emotional intelligence , So you have to control your emotions , Emotion has a great influence on people . You may be facing a dilemma , You may be experiencing untold hardships , But who dares to say that this seemingly cruel situation , It's not a test for you to get better ？
When something goes wrong , Just say to yourself , It's just a day when I hone my character in the wind and rain . People grow up through experience , The heart is strong in training . When something goes wrong , It takes action to change the status quo .

The fourth characteristic is self righteousness
Rousseau, the French thinker, pointed out pointedly that ：“ People make mistakes , Not because they don't understand , But because they all know why .”
In this era of knowledge economy , You just keep learning , It helps to form the character of modesty, integrity, wisdom and diligence , You will not be abandoned by this era . If necessary, have the mentality of returning to zero . It's like a glass of water , The cup is emptied when it is emptied , It's zero , There is no zeroing , You can't inject fresh liquid . If you want to acquire more knowledge 、 Skill , Achieve greater success , You must clear your heart regularly .

The fifth characteristic is that we rely on intuition to do things , Not based on facts
Only sensibility , No reason , I haven't started yet , Just say this is too difficult , Not easy to do . It is often said that my method will work , wait . These are his personal instincts , But he's not based on facts , Nor pay attention to the experience of successful people , This is difficult to sustain development and progress . Consider the pros and cons or pros and cons before making a major decision , Then make a decisive choice . Don't wait until it's too late , To pay attention to how to observe, analyze and think correctly . Please always remind yourself , No matter what the situation , Don't give up learning , We should move closer to reality and objectivity .

The sixth characteristic is that we do things without faith
Some people do things without faith , I like to hear what others say . For what you do , No confidence .
Belief is an attitude of human beings , But a lot of people do things , Not by faith , It's about listening to what other people say . If you ask for advice about climbing the mountain , Ask those who have climbed to the top of the mountain , Never ask someone who hasn't climbed the mountain . Others' suggestions can be used for reference , But don't be credulous , Don't blindly follow the trend .
To believe in , Just give , There is always a return . You can't decide when the sun will rise , But you can decide when you want to get up . You can't control the length of life , But it can increase the width of life . Another name of strong is hard support , Another name of miracle is effort .

To overcome their immaturity , You need positive ideas to try to improve your knowledge and ability . A person's own can and can 、 May and may not 、 Whether there is a clear distinction between doing and not doing , Can we accurately position the social role of individuals , So as to find the boundary of self ability and value , To a large extent, we can see the maturity of this person . To really understand yourself , You have to look at yourself from a different perspective . First , want “ Check yourself ”. Look at yourself objectively , Out of myself , Look at yourself , It's like looking in the mirror , Not only look at the front , It also depends on the opposite side ; Not only to see their own highlights , We should also be aware of our own shortcomings , Don't let yourself be alone 、 be overbearing . secondly , Listen to criticism , Have changed , No one else to encourage. . Clearly know that there is a day , Someone outside the person ; Some short-scale , Inch a director . Some people say ： Life is like a scale , It's easy to feel inferior if you underestimate yourself ; It's easy to be arrogant when you weigh yourself ; Only the scale is accurate , To seek truth from facts 、 Feel yourself properly , Perfect yourself .