What is the way out for children from poor families?

1. Out of the mountains

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In the taxi, my brother asked me , How to get out of here , My wife and I both laughed , I don't know how to reply .

The driver said , Rural children walk out of the mountains , does 2 A way , One is to be a soldier , One is to go to college .

The eldest brother of the taxi driver is in his 40s , It should be local , There is a little truth in what he said , But it is difficult to be appropriate to the current rural situation .

If you push his sentence forward 20 year , Then this sentence is quite correct .

Now the country treats soldiers very well , There will also be many welfare policies after leaving the army , But the population covered is only a small part .

The most important thing is that it is difficult to change fate , It can only be said that this way , Go to life in the hometown system in disguise .

2. read

Taxi driver brother , At least half right , Reading is indeed the best way to change the fate of rural children , Should not “ One of ”.

From my time （80） Start , Generally, a slightly normal family , We attach great importance to children's education , It can be said that all the efforts of the whole family have been exhausted .

For example, when my sister and I were in College , Not only borrowed money from relatives and friends around , At the same time, I also got the national student loan 、 Grants, etc .

But objectively speaking , This way is also slowly a little biased .

University enrollment has been greatly expanded , Now basically as long as you want to go to school , There is no school you can't go to , But the tuition fees of some schools are very expensive .

Going to a university for a year is 3-4 ten thousand ,4 You need it at the end of the year 10-20 ten thousand , And I didn't go to any good university .

And the source of students in these schools , A large part of them are children from rural areas , Because after all, rural education resources are relatively backward , The difficulty of getting into a good university has doubled .

And after these students graduate , It's getting harder and harder to find a job .

So the corresponding situation is , In the past two years, civil servants 、 The number of candidates for the postgraduate examination has reached record highs .

3. Still the best choice

Although these facts are objective , But I still want to say ：

For now , Reading is still the fairest and best way to change your fate , Not one of them. , Especially for rural children .

It's not what a university can learn , The most important thing is to broaden our horizons , Know that there are so many choices in life .

Because in the countryside , There is no choice at all .

Will not laugh once said a word , Your level of development , Is the closest to you 5 Individual average .

Make the most unreliable analogy , I don't believe if you are a friend of Obama , People at the same level as ordinary people .

If you don't go out , The choices of the people around you have imprisoned you .

Because most rural people have a range of choices , Basically farming 、 working 、 delivery 、 Open all kinds of small business shops, etc .

The upper limit of development has been imprisoned .

Reading opens our world , With the right to choose , Know that there are so many possibilities in the world , It is easy for us to set our own goals .

Once a person has a goal , It is not easy to deviate , It's also easy to reach the end .

4. Change the fate

Combined with my own experience .

In the life experience that changed my destiny , Yes 3 The most important choice , Is this 3 A choice has brought me to the present .

Here I would like to add , There are many choices in our life , May be very important , But there are few choices to change our destiny , Often just a few .

Once you go wrong, it's a completely different life , And it's almost irreparable .

The first choice to change my fate is to go to college .

That year I 18 year , I haven't been out of the small county , I came to a small city for the first time , I can't even tell the southeast from the northwest .

But just because of going to college , Just opened my spiritual world , Know that there are so many possibilities in the world .

The second choice to change fate is , After graduation, I became a programmer ,

It is said that , Men are afraid of getting into the wrong business and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man , Until now, I have a deep understanding of this sentence , If I go to another industry , There may not be so many opportunities .

After all , Personal choices are all coerced in the tide of history .

If it weren't for the rapid development of China's Internet 20 year , How can we ordinary people work 、 employment , Even high salary opportunities .

And girls , Choosing objects is really too important .

Choose a different husband , It will really bring you a completely different life , Finding a husband is really too important , So choose carefully .

The third choice to change fate is to drift North .

Beijing is the center of China's Internet , Only here can I have so many choices , Caught up with the upsurge of Internet finance .

From a programmer to a technology manager , Meet again 2 A good leader , He has served in almost all R & D positions .

Because I have experienced so much , I just began to share my story , We media again 、 freelance , Now I have my own small company .

3 Secondary selection , Changed my life .

Rural children want to change their fate , Is to grasp the most critical choices in life , Sometimes even desperate to catch .

because , Opportunities for us , It's rare ！

Of course , There are many choices in life , Maybe only when you look back a few years later , To realize that , At that time, that choice was very critical and important for life .

Such as whether to read 、 First job 、 Which city do you work in 、 What kind of object are you looking for 、 When to get married, etc , At that time, at the fork of the road , It is also a very ordinary decision on a very ordinary day .

therefore , Thank you for your country and destiny , I was lucky . Thank you for the way I have walked , People I met , And everything I have .

therefore , Be grateful , Seize every opportunity we can , Growing up , Time will give us the answer .

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