Love and self-discipline and strive to live a core life

Love and self-discipline efforts —— Live a kernel life

“ Kernel life ” It stands for ： Internal drive 、 Self comparison 、 Inner reference based life mode .

Intrinsic motivation drives ： Your behavior is influenced by your curiosity 、 Interest in 、 Enthusiasm 、 sense of worth 、 Life mission 、 Driven by beliefs .

Most people , All choices in life are made by “ Extrinsic motivation ” Instead of “ Intrinsic motivation ” Driven .

therefore , Most people consider when making life choices ： Can this choice bring me more wealth ？ Can it bring me a bigger house ？ Can it bring me more envious eyes ？

And love and self-discipline efforts , Is a completely different mentality and pattern . When a person can continue to follow his curiosity 、 Enthusiasm 、 Innate drive , You will get the most precious thing in the world —— Great pleasure and satisfaction brought by the process .

that , How can we have such kernel characteristics ？

The first thing to say is , Giving priority to internal reference does not mean not listening to others' opinions , It means to listen more to your inner voice or the independent judgment of your mind when making decisions , At the same time, I can listen to others' opinions and suggestions openly .

This is a long process of cultivation , It can never be done overnight , The key is ： To perceive .

Be aware of whether the source of each decision comes from inside or outside , Be aware of what you say , What has been done , Because you want to be with others 、 Match mainstream values , Or because it contains your true feelings and independent thinking .

Then gradually adjust , A little bit of adjustment is in the state of reference .

【 kazuo inamori ： Pursue this “ Six things are advanced ”, You will have a wonderful life 】

1) No less than the efforts of others

This is the basis of everything . We should concentrate on our work , Go all out to spend your life . If you have spare time to complain , It's better to work hard 、 Improve , Even if it's only one centimeter .

2) Be modest, not proud

Introvert your passion , Always be modest and honest , It will be favored by heaven , Achieve brilliant achievements .

3) Reflect on yourself every day

We must always check our actions and ideas , Pay attention to whether you fall into a selfish mentality that only cares about your own interests . If you find any such tendency , You should be alert immediately , Try your best to get rid of .

4) Thank life

Only when we carry “ Contentment ”, Be cognizant of “ Now we have enough ” when , Only then can we truly feel the feeling of happiness . And full of gratitude for being able to live in this world .

5) Do good and accumulate virtue

There is a happy ending in the family of kindness , We must pay attention to doing good deeds in life , Accumulate good causes for the future . also , By persistently accumulating all kinds of good deeds , Our personality will naturally be improved and sublimated .

6) Abandon the troubles brought by sensibility

Don't always be angry , entertain imaginary or groundless fears , bring trouble on oneself . Instead of worrying , We might as well practice the above six kinds of refinement . Through such efforts , We must be able to sharpen our souls 、 Improve your mind 、 Open the door of fate for yourself .