Three kinds of thinking make me reborn

1、 Closed loop thinking

Closed loop thinking is simply , If someone else starts something , No matter what you do , In the end, it is necessary to close the loop to the initiator .

I've been through this before ：

I asked an intern to write a questionnaire .

Two hours passed , No feedback , After three hours, there is still no feedback , Until lunch time , I met him .

I asked him , Are you finished ？ He said he was finished .

I said, , Why didn't you send it to me , He said , After writing, it will be sent out directly .

What would you say about this person ？ unreliable .

What do people with closed-loop thinking do ？

First of all , If he finishes , Then you should give feedback in time , And tell me about the situation at that time .

second , If he doesn't finish , Also give timely feedback , Where did you encounter difficulties , Need help or not .

In either case , There is a closed loop , That is, it is initiated by you and returned to you .

No matter how well done , Be sure to give a feedback , Form a closed loop , There are too many talented people dying in this link .

I don't blame him for this , Think of yourself once , Also a “ Feedback black holes ”, It's up to me , I'll finish it for you at last , How troublesome the old feedback is . The main thing is , Less feedback gives you more opportunities to be lazy , I thought I had muddled through , In fact, it has been labeled as unreliable .

There used to be a saying that points were very good ： Account for everything , One thing at a time , There is a response to everything . This is closed loop thinking .

2、 Growth thinking

People with growth thinking can always face challenges and failures ; contrary , Another kind of thinking corresponding to growth thinking is fixed thinking , They always subconsciously avoid challenges and failures .

Once I was a fixed thinker ：

I found English difficult in primary school , escape , High school English has not reached the standard , I've only passed Grade 4 in my senior year ;

I didn't do well in a physics exam in middle school , Lost interest in Physics , College physics exam 3 The next time ;

In high school, I was rejected by the girl I liked , Lost the courage to pursue the opposite sex , After that, I dare not talk to girls for a period of time ;

After work , The leader told me one thing , My first reaction was this I wouldn't , I can't do it. ;

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Why is that? ？

In the final analysis, it is because I am afraid of failure , Fear of being denied , Mistakenly take the negation of others to something as the negation of oneself . The only way not to be denied is not to do that . So my ability circle becomes smaller and smaller , The pace of progress also stopped abruptly .

Then I changed my attitude , I admit that I am afraid of failure , But I don't agree , The more I fear, the more I do .

Didn't you think you couldn't learn English well ？ I will take the postgraduate entrance examination , Although I didn't pass the exam , But my English score is not low , And I obviously feel that English is not so difficult to learn .

I was afraid of physics ？ I will read physics related books , I thought it was interesting , Often give people science , People often say ： How can you know everything ？

Didn't you dare to talk to girls ？ I just talk to girls crazily , Offline chat up , Online social software , Although a lot of girls died , But I have developed the ability to talk with any girl .

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After that, I found , Failure is a normal thing , You can think of it as a mountain blocking you , You can be a brave mountaineer .

3、 critical thinking

So called critical thinking , Not mean ：

All arguments should be overturned in advance , Prove others wrong from the opposite side ;

In a skeptical way of thinking , Think everyone is wrong , What anyone said is ignored ;

The legendary bar spirit ？ Connect heaven, earth, air .

It's about criticizing yourself

We can't avoid being in trouble , Always judge the correctness of things by their own standards . This is the inherent inertia of thinking , But they can always reduce prejudice through their own efforts .

Be used to looking back and thinking about everything . For example, someone tells you something , Your first impression may be that he is completely talking nonsense , however , Be sure to think twice , If I was wrong , He was right ？ This time thinking , You must not assume that you are right ;

If you think twice , I still feel right , Other party's fault ,

For the third time , Whether my realm is not enough , Can't understand him ？ Why do you want a third time ？ Because anyone who wants to improve , We all have to admit our ignorance , Challenge your own beliefs , Embrace new ideas . This is the essence of critical thinking .

Criticism of oneself , Most practical , It is the daily re examination of oneself . Consider whether your work life in a day is in line with your goal state , Is there anything missing or can be improved .

Original address ： Which way of thinking have you deliberately trained ？