The faith of circle justice

In fact, last month I finished reading teacher Luo Xiang's 《 Circle justice ： As the premise of freedom 》, Many views are really thought-provoking , So immediately decide what to write , So I listed teacher Luo Xiang's views and how to improve his attitude and life in the future according to one, two and three points .

But when I wrote about a point he repeatedly mentioned , Only then did I realize how false those I wrote above were .

The greatest pain of man is that he cannot cross the gap between knowing and doing .

Yes , We all know that losing weight is nothing more than a healthy diet plus moderate exercise , But the next moment I passed McDonald's, eating fried chicken and shouting "really delicious..." ; We all know that writing novels is nothing more than reading, writing and observing the world , But after returning home, I still couldn't help opening games and short videos .

Then look at what I wrote , Line by line, I write something I will never do , I am only ashamed and embarrassed , Quickly delete those written by yourself “ Feces ”.

however , I finished reading it last night B Luo Xiang and papi Interview with sauce .

Luo Xiang is a well-known law disseminator 、 Millions of fans up Lord 、 A great writer 、 The guide of philosophy .

He said ：“ I'm just a doorman in the temple of law ”.

He said ：“ People should be aware of their limitations ”.

Seeing teacher Luo Xiang's indifference to fame and wealth 、 A high degree of introspection , My inner desire for expression is ready to move , Of course, I don't want to write that kind of slogan again this time , Tell others what I want to do with my arms raised and shouted , It's a combination of recent experience , Write my thoughts .

The pursuit of skill itself

from 2022 Year begins , I decided that my sideline is to use writing to realize , Currently writing a book called 《 Apocalypse ： leviathan 》 Apocalyptic novels , But I'm lazy , Still very tangled , Repeatedly overturned what he wrote , So after signing the contract with tomato, the progress was slow . So far , My royalties income is only the poor 3.20 yuan of tomatoes , As well as the reward of friends from official account , It doesn't add up to 50 .

Maybe it's because of the darkness in my heart , I prefer to ponder the dark side of human nature , Expose social phenomena , But considering the audience and platform Review , I completely changed my first draft into the popular style of shuangwen , Introduced cultivation level , The concept of monster level , Although he can stack words very well , But I see that my theme is getting farther and farther away , What you write is nonsense , So I feel bad , It's directly broken .

So Luo Xiang gave me a punch in the preface of this book .

Writing is also a skill , It has the pursuit of skill itself , It can also bring accompanying fame and wealth . But if writing is only for fame and wealth , Then writing is no longer writing .

In fact, the atmosphere of the online literary circle is not quite right , Just open one to write online articles or be the editor up Lord , Are teaching you how to sweep the list , How to write popular money , I feel very impetuous , It is difficult for ordinary people to stand out from this kind of copied sameness . Those with high income in the online literary circle , They are all the top writers in the station , And others , Just a writer .

So he overturned his novel several times , Decided not to cater to the public .

But that's what I'm saying , Very ashamed , When will my fourth edition of novel be able to be moved to tomato and continue to be serialized , In fact, it's still an unknown number , Still too lazy .

Admit your limitations and shortcomings

Only a short while ago , I feel like a son of fate .

Listen to what my father said about the past , How did he go from glory to decline , Let me have an inexplicable sense of mission ： My future will revitalize my family like a hero , Restore the former glory .

Hold that thought , I went to “ Start a business ” 了 .

But in just one year , Accept the reality of torture , I went back to work honestly .

Although it seems to be understated now , But in fact, I feel very sorry , Because fate did not give me such a halo , I deeply realize that I am just an ordinary person , Migrant workers in the new era .

I feel like I grew up later than my peers , For many things, I think I just figured it out recently , Plus something that happened recently , Previously disdained those ideas and plans , Now it's written in the life plan , So I'm really anxious recently .

Be aware of these limitations , It's not too late , The key is whether we can do better every day than yesterday , To achieve a better life with action .

Moral condemnation , Always put yourself before others

Sometimes I feel that my empathy is terrible , So I've also been scolded as a virgin bitch .

I basically don't read Weibo , At most, let's see what hot search terms there are . Because I think the anger of Weibo is quite heavy , Sometimes I feel very uncomfortable . Of course, it's not just Weibo , The same goes for other platforms , It's no wonder now .

It is easy for people to stand on the commanding height of morality and condemn others . When that happens , We imagine that the moral self has an inexplicable sense of superiority , Even this sense of superiority can cover up the darkness in your heart .

Teacher Luo Xiang believes that the root cause , Is too narcissistic .

Narcissism is easy to find and magnify others' problems , But they seldom reflect that they are also committing the same problem .

Of course, I do the same myself , So sometimes I can't help criticizing them when I see something on the Internet , Then I will reflect , When in the same situation , Will I do better than them .

Or that sentence , When fate entrusts you with that critical moment , Can you be as noble as you think . This kind of nobility needs to pay a price , Maybe a little hurt , Maybe it's taking my life …… Anyway, it must not be using your fingers in front of the keyboard .

Think back to my past 27 Years of experience , unfortunately , I think I'm probably afraid of death , Mean and selfish people ; At the sight of injustice , People who run without hesitation .

But I don't want to mess up , Or try to become a saint in your mind .

Love specific people , Get out of narcissism , Get out of hatred

Love , This word is like a behemoth to me , Even pressed me out of breath .

It is much heavier than like , Behind it is not just our fascination with something or someone , With that responsibility , So I dare not say this word easily .

But such a person is special , Even if this person is so miserable , We can love this person unconditionally —— That's me . For most people , This is easy to do .

Mr. Luo Xiang is 《 Climb the peak of hatred in narcissism 》 This article expounds how narcissism breeds hatred , At the end of the article, it is also given to get out of narcissism , The ultimate solution to get out of hatred —— Love specific people .

In fact, loving human beings can be very simple , Just imagine yourself as a noble person , Talk loudly on the Internet every day , Then you are nominally loving human , But behind this is moral self satisfaction , It's nihilism .

The higher level is to really take action , For example, Rousseau mentioned in the book , Anyone who has studied history knows that he is one of the representatives of the enlightenment .

I wrote about 《 On the origin of human inequality 》, It is said that he would weep at the thought of human suffering . But he sent his five children to an orphanage . He is too busy , Busy loving human , There is no time to love specific people .

I think for those five children , How sad it is .

But the challenges faced by people who love concrete things are much bigger , Need to pay , Need tolerance , Need material satisfaction and so on .

In fact, I don't know how to love a specific person , But from the perspective of a person who is overwhelmed by the so-called love , Probably don't kidnap others in the name of love .

I'm still groping , Learn how to love .

At the end

I actually built many new drafts in the backstage of official account , Too many things to express , But because I read this book, I changed some of my ideas , So I didn't continue to write . This article is finished , Finally, I filled one of the holes I dug for myself recently , As for the others , It might be better for me to think it over before publishing .

I've experienced a lot this year , Every single thing can make me out of breath . Fortunately, this book can arouse my thinking , Solved many of my questions , It also gave me a lot of strength .

When you're confused , I recommend you to read this book .