How to fall in love with a programmer

Foreword:

It's Qixi Festival again, how romantic it is to think of the Cowherd and Weaver Girl meeting in the Milky Way.We programmers can't be left behind.But some Guliang always feel that dating with programmers is always boring and too technical, so I think it is better to write an article in small letters, talk about it, I hope it can be helpful to Guliang who is dating with our programmers, and it can also be helpful to our programmers.Be inspired by yourself:

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1 Programmers who love technology and programmers who want to make money

Gu Liang, first of all, you have to find programmers with ideals, not programmers just for making money.These two different positions are the basic points of attention for choosing programmers first.

Of course, making money is what everyone needs, and programmers generally have relatively high incomes.

Then why should the programmer be held accountable for his love of technology?

1.1 Attitude determines the height of life:

The reason is very simple. A programmer who loves technology often encounters problems without compromise and never complains.And a programmer who wants to make money often complains repeatedly because the project encounters difficulties or the predecessor's code is not clear.Since programmers often bring their work home, this will appear in front of you. You want to see someone who is always working hard, or someone who is always cursing. This will definitely have an impact on your future life.influences.

1.2 Is there the ability to take time calmly

A program that loves technology will definitely take time to learn new technologies, that is, this guy has the ability to take time out from the heavy design work, then, corresponding to falling in love, he also has the ability to learn from the heavy design work.The ability to take time out from work to deal with the family is also very important in family life.

【Case】For example, someone like me who can spare a lot of time to write CSDN blogs without delaying children's study and tutoring.

1.3 Ability to withstand the storm of technological change

In a broad sense, any technology has the possibility of being eliminated. Therefore, if the technology is too simple, even very powerful people may be eliminated due to the elimination of technology.Moreover, the revolution of new technologies often leads the development direction of technology, which is also the direction of capital.

A programmer who loves technology will not ignore new technology, and will definitely work hard on the development direction of this new technology, so as to avoid the risk of this technology being eliminated, and at the same time, it is easy to keep up with the trend of technological development, and thus also have higher social value and the ability to make money.

【Case】Of course, working on algorithms for basic computing understanding, etc., can be considered as exceptions due to the universality of algorithmic foundations.

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2 Find programmers with hobbies outside of technology

Most programmers are still ordinary people. We have to admit that programmers may be a little smarter than ordinary people, but they are still ordinary people, not Einstein.In addition to programming, we programmers should also have two or three hobbies other than technology. Such people can be relatively perfect people, and they can also find an outlet for their emotions, and it is easier to protect the computer keyboard and the girl they are together.

Because there is only one hobby of computing and design, and because technology inevitably has a ceiling, sooner or later, you will encounter a computing bottleneck. Although you can break through, if you don't have a channel for venting during this time, then it will be difficult for you.They do have a bit of a risk.

I remember that the real big guys have some good hobbies. For example, Einstein can play the violin, Elon Musk likes to toss with rockets, etc.Programmers with hobbies can foresee having another non-verbal channel to communicate with people, which can save a lot of unnecessary trouble.

For example, I saw a couple of programmers, both programmers, one front-end and one back-end. How do you communicate?They both love watching movies. Then, they built a 120-inch screen at home. Movies are their communication channel and common hobby. I think this kind of marriage is stable.

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3 Other qualities that contribute to Dating:

I will continue to talk about it in the next article, and I look forward to your attention.