2 Expression package pit miserable workplace people

source ： Deep burning （ID：shenrancaijing） author ： Wang min. Tang Ya Hua Li Qiuhan Zou Shuai Wanqi

It's cool to make an expression ,“ She died ” I can't tell you how bitter it is .

People in the workplace , Expression pack should also be used with caution . 

Many people don't know , Facial expression package sent out in daily chat , May be regarded as “ Evidence in court ”. In recent days, , The Jiangsu high court issued an article pointing out that , Wechat we use everyday “ give the thumbs-up ”、“OK” as well as “ The sun ” Wait for the expression pack , Has been written into the court judgment , Become the support for the court to file and review “ evidence ”. 

The news , Instantly trigger discussion , topic of conversation # Wechat emoticons are written into the judgment # Also quickly boarded the microblog hot search , At present, the number of reading has exceeded 2 Billion . 

Expression pack has already penetrated into our work and daily life . Many people in the workplace are also used to expressing their emotions with expression packs , Even use some interesting 、 Trendy expression pack to show personality , Close the distance with others . But sometimes , Also because both sides are separated from the screen , There are different understandings of expression packs , Or because of age 、 Rank 、 Different status , Cause a misunderstanding , Light is on the spot “ She died ”, In serious cases, there will be contradictions . 

Five people in the workplace told shenran about the embarrassing moment they fell into because of the expression pack , Some are new people in the workplace , Make the funny photos of the leaders in private into expression packs , Spread all over the company , Be taught by the boss not to understand the rules of the workplace ; Some are working elderly , Ignoring workplace boundaries , Mistakenly send the expression package that teases female customers to the work group , Not only embarrassing , It is also a sign of disrespect for others ; Someone was going to tell a friend about buying egg tarts for his colleagues , But it was sent to the work group by mistake , I also accidentally matched one “ Roll one's eyes ” The expression of , Let colleagues doubt their sincerity . 

Some people also use the seemingly common expression pack in the article , But I received a lawyer's letter , The defendant also claims compensation for infringement , Got into a lot of trouble ; The accident is , Others don't like to use facial expression bags in the workplace , Be educated by leaders and don't know how to communicate with colleagues , Considered low EQ . 

Expression pack can be used as workplace lubricant , At the right time , It can better help us convey happiness, anger, sorrow and happiness . But they also realized , Different age 、 Communicate with people of different identities , Express your meaning in simple words , It's safer . following , It's their story . 

Make the photos of leaders into funny expression bags , Criticized for not understanding workplace rules, Xiao Chen  | 20 year Education industry practitioners

When I went to my present company for internship this winter vacation , There is a , Leader 、 Colleagues chat together in the office , I took a picture of a partner of the company . Later, I chatted with my colleagues , Everyone thought that photo was funny , It can be made into an expression bag . Do what you say , I did it immediately . 

In College , My classmates and I 、 Friends often joke about each other with pictures as expression packs , Maybe because I am 00 after , Young people will feel more relaxed and happy to communicate with expression packs . Make an expression bag with partner photos , One is that the other party knows the existence of this photo , At that time, there was no dissatisfaction . Second, I just think , This expression pack will only be sent when several colleagues joke . So I didn't think it would be too serious at first . 

result , This expression is passed on , To the big boss of the company . little does one think , He really cares about using the leader's photo as an expression bag .

The boss is in his forties , Always be serious , A more serious style . There has always been an unwritten rule in our company's work group , If you have any questions, reply directly in words , Try not to send expression packs . There is a , One of our colleagues sent a slightly funny expression package in the work group , The boss asked him to talk privately , I don't think it's formal to send expression packs in groups at work , Too casual . 

After seeing the expression pack I made , The boss called me , I understand that I am still young , May not understand the rules and taboos in the workplace , He also said that I should not use the photos of leaders as expression packs , This belongs to disrespect for leaders .

Although the boss didn't ask me to apologize to that partner , But I also realize that my behavior may be inappropriate , Just go and apologize to the partner , explains , Young people will communicate with expression packs like this , There is no disrespect for her . 

The partner is not very angry about this , Also said that I can continue to play , Privately forward it to her . I dare not , At that time, I just felt too embarrassed , Where can I think of is to make an expression bag for self entertainment , Also talked with the boss . 

After this , I also learned a lesson , In the workplace , I don't dare to send facial expression bags any more , And adhere to a principle , Try not to send expression packs , If you can't do it, don't do it , More is better than less . 

Colleagues ridicule customers for being sexy , Mistakenly send the obscene expression package to the customer group yaya | 35 year Internet practitioners

In the former company , I'm in charge of running a 300 A large group of people , The group is full of high-end people like entrepreneurs . There is a young male subordinate in my team , I'm careless , Usually speaking without hindrance , Get along with me like a buddy . 

One day we added a new member to our group , Is a beauty of ethnic minorities . I was driving , The male subordinate sent me a voice and said , The new member is so beautiful , Nice figure …… And so on . I replied casually , Then he sent a very obscene expression package . 

We didn't notice where our chat was 300 In a large group of people , It was not until the little assistant in the group called me that I found . This beautiful member is also in the Group , People returned a polite thank you for appreciating my beauty . I quickly sent a lot of apologies , That male subordinate is anxious to leave the Group , I said he was very generous , Don't refund . 

These contents have also been seen by our big leaders , He called both of us to give a lecture , Say I'm not good at management as a leader , It's uncivilized to criticize that subordinate , Also said that the group is full of entrepreneurs , This matter has a particularly bad impact , It is suggested that we contact the beautiful member to make a written explanation or apology . 

Later, I called the beautiful member to explain , Fortunately, the other person is also very good , Say it's okay . 

I also encountered a very embarrassing thing recently , I'm with a 50 Multi year old leaders work together , He should not know much about expression packs , Often tell me that it's done very well , Then add young people to express “ ha-ha ” The smiling expression of death , I have never found a suitable way to remind him . 

He also told me one thing two days ago , When I get my typing recycled , Expression package automatically associated by input method , It was a little pig who said he received . He immediately returned three question marks to me , I thought I just said yes , He doesn't think I said he was a pig ？ Realize that this is wrong , I quickly withdrew that expression , Said wrong , Reply to the text received . 

In workplace communication , I talk to 90 after 、00 There are more expression packs after , Often start and end a chat with some familiar partners by throwing expression packs at each other , I don't dislike this form . 

But expression pack this thing , For people who are not in the same dimension , There may be some misunderstanding , When you use it, you still have to divide people 、 Divide things 、 Communication occasions .

I'm not familiar with some 、 Older , Or someone whose position is much higher than mine , Prefer to use more written words , Even grinning 、 I will never use the expression of laughing and crying . I'd rather let others think I'm a “ Antique ”, Don't let others feel that this person is out of tune . 

Because the expression pack in the article four years ago , We received a lawyer's letter coco  | 26 year New media operations

I am engaged in new media operation , Usually, I only use expression packs when chatting in private , Prefer funny and cute style . I didn't expect to get involved in the dispute because of the expression pack . 

This year, 6 At the beginning of , The company suddenly received an express . It's from a law firm , The other party informed us in writing , The company's official account is 2018 year -2020 In the article of , Used the expression package of an image , Suspected infringement , If you get the legal authorization of the picture , Need to confirm with the client , If not legally authorized , Take corresponding responsibilities . There are also several documents attached , Including lawyer's letter 、 Work registration certificate 、 A work image authorization 、 The business license of the other party . 

At that time, I had not joined this company , It was an article written by the new media operation at that time , There will be some expression packs to express emotions . That expression pack is quite common in daily communication , People often use it when chatting . In the official account article , It is also widely used . 

I've never experienced anything like this , I don't know if it's infringement . At the same time, there are also some doubts , I've seen the news before saying , There are companies in the market that apply for such authorization everywhere , Then looking for a needle in a haystack, I sent lawyer letters to companies across the country . 

After discussing with the leaders , We decided to cold treat , Delete all relevant articles of official account . The other party has been asking us for compensation , We haven't replied to the message yet , At present, the contradiction has not been further intensified . 

Recently, many colleagues have come to consult me , I find that many people have experienced similar things , The other party's purpose is to claim compensation , An expression pack uses one compensation 3300 element , The annual use of the package should 6250 element . One person consulted a lawyer , Say similar cases that have been closed , There has been a losing judgment , The amount of compensation is 2000 element -3000 yuan . 

Our style is rigorous , I can't use expression pack anymore . There is no way to avoid what happened before , We are also learning about the situation in many ways , Refer to the practice of peers , I hope that when a similar state occurs later , Know how to face . 

Ask colleagues to finish eating egg tarts “ roll one's eye ”, I was on the spot “ She died ” Fleshy  | 25 year Media industry practitioners

I changed a new company some time ago . This company is the head of the industry , I am particularly satisfied with every aspect . 

Our working group has 12 personal , The colleagues inside are basically peers , There are also several who joined with me at the same time , We had a good chat on the day of entry . I also told my friends , The working environment is good , I'm sure I can get along well with my colleagues . 

I'm already good at socializing , The next day I bought two boxes of egg tarts , Give it to our group . Everyone ate happily , I'm happier , Let me get too excited about getting along with my colleagues . 

I have a group of friends , Inside, too 10 More than one person , I just want to tell them about it . I sent a message , say “ I am a social cow , In the afternoon, I carry two boxes of egg tarts , Get close to the whole group , I'm so tired .” I didn't think too much , Conveniently sent an expression pack that was relatively in front of the wechat expression bar , yes 《 The temptation of home 》 Inside, pinru covered her nose and rolled her eyes , It seems to mean disgust . 

When sending messages , I'm catching the subway in the evening rush hour , I didn't read much after sending it . Wait until I turn on my cell phone , Only then discovered , I sent this paragraph to the work group . Even more embarrassing , It has been two minutes since this paragraph was sent , It cannot be withdrawn . 

I was blush , It's numb . There is nothing bad in this passage , But with that expression bag , The meaning may change , There's one thing I don't want , But I have to please my colleagues .

later , One person in the group replied , It's also an expression bag . I quickly explained that I sent the wrong group , Start making fun of yourself crazily to alleviate embarrassment . A little psychological comfort is , My colleagues are all very good , Everyone joked along with my words , say “ Your expression bag is too deadly .” 

I have fantasized countless times before about what to do if I send bad words about my colleagues to the company group . I didn't expect this kind of thing to really happen , Although I'm not talking ill of you this time , But the tone and expression package , It really makes people think more , It feels like a superficial goodwill , On the other side, he said his heart again . 

After that , I think about it , I chat too much at the top , There are also many groups , Groups with similar numbers look the same , It's easy to make mistakes . also , My work is rather trivial , There are many wechat messages , I used to leak back 、 Fallback , But it's harmless , The reason is that I don't concentrate . If answering messages is part of my job , I should take it seriously . 

Another experience is , The expression pack used in work and the expression pack used in life should be separated . Although wechat has no such function , But I think I have some large-scale expression packs in my collection , Can not be sent to the workplace . Other wechat expression packs , Like the cute little animals and cartoon characters in the mall , It can be used in the workplace , Because of the expression on it 、 Actions and words are clearly expressed , Not likely to cause misunderstanding . 

Pay attention to work efficiency without expression bag , The leader said my EQ was low, Ma Xiaoyong  | 33 year   edit

I work as an editor in a media , Mostly online communication with others , There's no need to work with others , It's more about yourself “ fight alone—do sth. on one's own ”. Maybe because of these characteristics , So that I am not familiar with some colleagues who have business contacts in the company . I also don't think it's necessary to make the relationship between colleagues very close , In the workplace , The most important thing is to finish the work efficiently . 

little does one think , One day, the leader said that I couldn't communicate 、 Emotional intelligence is low , I was also asked to use an expression pack to ease the atmosphere . 

There is a , I was arranged to write a short video program script . I'm not a professional video director , It's hard to write a video script , little does one think , The video cut by the editor , The effect is worse than I expected , On the soundtrack 、 With floral characters , It's like PPT. The connection of the lens , Not smooth enough . When the editor sent me the first version of the video , I'll list the opinions one by one immediately , Hope to re edit according to these opinions . 

I sent the message directly in the video editing project group , When the leader sees it , Private confidence in me , Say I speak stiffly , When making demands , It should be euphemistic , You can use more expression packs to improve your Eq . after one's words , Also let me send some expression packs to the group to ease embarrassment . 

Tell the truth , I didn't think I had a problem speaking , Talk about why we should use facial expression package ？ So that the leader told me , I did not send . 

The crowd was silent for more than an hour , Only leaders speak , Show this video directly to customers , If the customer has no comments , The video won't move first . I was a little confused , I don't know if the leader is angry with me , Or for other reasons . 

Afternoon , I think about it , I find that I seldom use expression packs in my work , Even wechat's own expression pack is rarely used . The reason for not using it is very simple , I feel at work , Using facial expression packs will reduce efficiency , Some expression packs are placed in messages , It also affects reading . In life , My girlfriend likes to send me all kinds of expression packs , I seldom use it , Indeed, she said it was not humorous , Very straight . 

I got home , I told my girlfriend about it . She analyzed , As soon as I came up, I asked a lot of questions , It will make the editor feel that I am not satisfied with her work . She suggested that I find an opportunity to explain to the editor and the leader , There is no malice in your words . She also suggested that when I chat later , Send some praise to others 、 My happy expression bag , To express your feelings . 

What my girlfriend said is reasonable , But I still don't want to do this , It's good for everyone to communicate effectively in work , Also care about each other's happiness , For me, , That's an extra burden . 

After this , I feel that the leaders are picky about my work , For example, I think the needs I mentioned are too trivial , Maybe I'm too sensitive . But soon , I also consider other factors , Choose to leave this company , Also left Beijing . This is an episode in the workplace . 

* Respondent's request , In this paper, yaya、 cocoa 、 Xiao Chen 、 Fleshy 、 Maxiaoyong is a pseudonym .