Your family must be very poor if you fight like this!

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This is an article I wrote two years ago .

Recently, I encountered something , I just remembered this article , Just share it with readers .

This year I have a daughter , Now 9 Months , So I decided to celebrate the new year in Xi'an , After all, Xi'an has heating and air conditioning .

But the closer it is to the holiday , The more I want to go back to my hometown , Plus my brother's twice daily phone brainwashing .

On the morning of new year's Eve , I decided to go back to my hometown .

I chartered a taxi online , The big brother talked with us all the way , When I get to my hometown , It's meaningful to say how you got out of here （ in the mountains ） Of .

Yes , My wife laughed .

My hometown is in the mountains , Although it doesn't look good , But I really never feel , It seems difficult to get out of here .

But for him , It really feels strange .

Like I was in 2 Years ago , I met a fellow countryman in Shaanxi , Speaking of my hometown , It's not easy .

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I went to a party two days ago , Meet a fellow Shaanxi , Introduce each other where they all come from , When I say I'm from XX City and county , The fellow told me , You can come from XX It's really not easy to get out of the city , You people there are very poor （ National poverty county ）, After hearing this , At that time , I don't know what to say .

Others say that his hometown is poor , I still feel bad , Although my hometown has developed well these years , But we still haven't got rid of the hat of national poor counties . Think about yourself all the way , It's not easy 、 Also encountered some opportunities , Plus your own efforts , To get to today .

Someone once asked me why I spelled it so , In general , My first answer is , I TM Just can't get busy , A worrying life ; loading B The second answer is , I like the feeling of struggle , Pursue the life and ideal you want .

Is that really the case ？ When everything is quiet , I asked myself if I could pretend B Do you ？ Tell me why you work so hard ？ A real voice rings , Indeed, because of poverty ...

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When I was a child, my family was always poor , Everyone in the key village is very poor , So I don't have much feeling , Only when I go to the county to study , Only then slowly saw the huge gap , Poverty burns great pride , Of course, only the poor can understand . But then I was poor , It's not that poor , At least the family can afford , No foreign debt .

After a lot of trouble, my sister finally got into a school , still 985、211, Due to economic pressure and son preference , My father tried to persuade my sister not to go to college , I really can't watch it, but who can blame . Finally, my old mother , Took my sister to borrow from Grandma's relatives , Just enough for the tuition , Up to now, my sister is still complaining about my father .

I went to college, too , The relative borrowed two thousand , The relative took five hundred , But because of the rural patriarchal ideology , My tuition is easier to scrape together . So I was the first to go out to find a tutor in the dormitory , I earned half of my living expenses during college .

The first semester of college has a winter vacation , Take a train for more than ten hours to Huainan, Anhui to find friends , My friend said that I could earn some money by doing odd jobs in winter vacation , Friends also said he was short of money , I squeezed out 200 yuan from the living expenses to call him . When I got there, I found that it was a MLM organization , I stayed for a month because I really had no money , MLM organizations can't help it , Let me come back , This may be the only benefit of being poor .

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After college , Everyone is talking about how to spend the first salary , Some say they want to give it to their girlfriend , Some said they would hand it over to their parents , Some said they would invite their family to a meal , Only I am silent . I can't give anyone , Because I have to keep it for rent .

The first salary after graduation is 2000 element , At that time, my girlfriend in college didn't go to work , After working for a year , Didn't save a penny , I borrowed more than 10000 , But at that time, because I was young and confident .

So I took my first job 9 I changed it a month ago , The salary of the second job finally rose to 4000 , I'm so happy , It turns out that working as a programmer is really rich . So I cherish my work , Be diligent and hardworking , Seize every opportunity to improve your technical ability .

But soon I realized 4000 A month's salary , Really not much . After six months in the second job , The family said they wanted to build the house , The old house was still an earthen house , I've always been afraid of strong wind and heavy rain , I'm worried that my parents live there .

Mother is a strong hearted person , To build a new house, you have to build it better , So the family borrowed more than 100000 . I figured it out , According to my salary at that time, I had to pay off my family's debts , It will take years , I can't afford to wait . So when the house was half built , I came to Beijing alone .

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When I came to Beijing, I only brought 3000 element , Because there was only 3000 element , The rest of the money was used to build a house at home . Rented a house and bought daily necessities , There are still more than a thousand left , I have to find a job in two weeks , Nothing else , Salary must be greater than 1 ten thousand . More fortunate , I won five in a week Offer .

After three years in Beijing , Basically paid off all the debts . But I'm still desperate , One side , I don't want to miss any chance I can seize , On the other hand , Sometimes you don't want to live up to others' trust in you , So I have always been very grateful to my two old leaders .

In the workplace , If someone is willing to give you a hand , You really have to thank him very much , What's more, sometimes I pull it many times . I am such a person , When someone gives me a chance , When you are willing to trust me , I'd rather not get a raise , Don't get promoted , I must do it well , I can't live up to these trust and expectations .

2015 year , I do technical management in an Internet finance company , At that time, the company developed very fast , Products and businesses are developing at a high speed , A dozen people come to me every day , All kinds of things , I'm almost the first to come to the company every morning , Most of the time I'm the last one to leave the company .

Take a taxi home at eleven every night , There was a car accident on the way home on the Third Ring Road , Two guys fell asleep while driving , The rear end of my taxi , The impact directly shook me up , The head bumped the car glass out of the spider web . After a day off , I went to work the next day , I have something in my heart. I can't stay at home .

It's the tail pursued by two boys

When the work pressure is maximum , I'm alone on the playground of the National People's Congress , Walk on the runway with your eyes closed , Depressurize in this way . Up to now, I can still find the work list of a week in the cloud notes , You can feel it .

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Six years North , Every year is busier than the past year , Has been accelerating 、 Speed up 、 The state of re acceleration . So over the years , I almost never rest .

But I'm glad , Although work and life are getting busier and busier , But my income is also increasing , Even the money earned in the next month , More than I've earned in my first two years of work .

I work harder than most people , I'm more eager to make money than most people , I like to try more than most people . So today , I finally don't think I'm poor anymore , I'm just poor .

Finally tired of this busy life , Now I want to change my way of life , What will I do in the future , I don't know either , But at least I won't live just for money .

Counter attack is the most difficult , But the process is also the most wonderful , I enjoy the process .

Life is very short 、 Timidity always leads to nothing , So if you're brave enough , Then resolutely choose what you like ！

Zhuangzi said ： Giant ROC spreads its wings , Fuyao can go up to 90000 miles ！

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