Battle drag method 1: moderately optimistic, build self-confidence (1)

One 、 In a word

A positive attitude may not solve all problems , But it will make many people work harder .

Two 、 The laws of

Action motivation = （ expect * Sense of value ）/（ impulse * It can be postponed ）

The greater the motivation for action , The less delay .

This formula is easy to understand .

Put off time ： If there is one thing you can do now , It can also be done next year , Then his delay time is 1 year , The motivation for action is very small , So we have a high probability of doing it next year , For example, looking for someone , For example, changing jobs , For example, learning , For example, go home to spend more time with your parents , For example, exercise more .

impulse ： This is related to personal emotions , Some people may be confused , Isn't it easier for impulsive people to do something , He did it on impulse , When you have this question, do you want to scold someone impulsively 、 Have a fight . It's not like that , Impulsive people especially want to get timely satisfaction , That is to rely especially on expectations , If the expectation of this thing is very low , Then he is easier to procrastinate than ordinary people . Like losing weight , Ordinary people start by shouting slogans, and it may take a month for sports to end , People who are impulsive may stop exercising once or twice without any effect .

expect ： Personally, I think expectation is the biggest influence factor of procrastination , Expectation is to think of the possibility of things happening , If you do one thing , You are sure there will be results , Then you have a high probability of doing it right away , such as ： smoking 、 Eat delicious food 、 Watch the beauty live 、 Watch the live game 、 blush and go red .

Some people say how the live game is so attractive , Because the game cannot be played for a year , Generally, it is round system , In the range you can expect, such as 20 minute 、30 You can get results in minutes .

Sense of value ： Sense of value is different from expectation , Expectation is the foreseeable result in the near future , And the sense of value is the evaluation of the value after something happens .

I personally think expect High things generally have a high sense of value , But the value of things with low expectations is not necessarily low .

For example, we know , Many, many people like to buy lottery tickets , The expectation of lottery is actually very low , No one dares to say that you can win the prize if you buy it , But it has a great sense of value , If there are 1.8 million or even tens of millions , How exciting it is , So expect * value It will be very high , So many people buy it every day , Not a day .

Then you said , Why don't some people buy it , This is that everyone has a different evaluation of their sense of value , Many people will think that they can't win the lottery , Buy it for nothing , Then his sense of value is extremely low , So he won't buy .

3、 ... and 、 Words in the book

There is... In the book 2 Many people may have experienced this passage ：

​ Looking for a job in a recession , This is probably the biggest pain you have ever suffered . Humble resume , Be despised again and again , It's really a great exercise for people . Repeatedly war and defeated , After a few months, the future is still uncertain , You can't help doubting yourself . Life is stretched out , Pressure is increasing , In order to alleviate the dilemma , It seems that I can only take the job I didn't look up to before . However , When you finally put down your figure 、 When lowering standards , But even so, no one wants you ！

​ Now , Rely on faith to support , Believe in yourself , Also believe in fate . Even if it has been completely defeated , Also believe that things will turn around , Maybe the next interview 、 The next leadership team or the next day , It's all right .

Of course, optimism doesn't make you look like a fool , Happy everyday , The leader said whether it can be completed , Your brain doesn't move , No problem .

Hear others shout that shit is delicious , You are also happy to say , I have also eaten . Who gives you confidence , Is it Liang Jingru, her brother ？

As for how to be moderately optimistic , Build confidence . Let's continue in the next article .

Someone is curious , Why not write technical articles recently , Start talking about philosophy ？

Jianglang has a day when all his talents are exhausted , Besides, I'm not even a Lang , Previously planned design pattern 23 This article is finished , I don't know what to write next , I want to write more than ten interview related articles , But there is no good idea , Recently, I have been thinking about how to write , But writing can't stop , So when I'm free, I'll write some books I've read recently , Nagging about the contents of the book .

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