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[understanding of opportunity -38]: Guiguzi - Chapter 5 flying clamp - warning one: there is a kind of killing called "killing"

2022-07-05 01:58:00 【Silicon based workshop of slow fire rock sugar】

Catalog

The first 1 Chapter What is killing ？

1.1 What is killing

1.2 The essence of killing

The first 2 Chapter Supporting cases

2.1 The slain martial Saint Guan Yu ;

2.2 The triumph of modern life

appendix ：

The first 1 Chapter What is killing ？

1.1 What is killing

“ To kill ” The allusion comes from 《 Customs are common 》,《 Modern Chinese dictionary 》 It means “ Praise or flatter excessively , Make the flattered proud 、 Stagnation and retrogression even lead to degeneration 、 Failure ”.

Mr. Lu Xun's 《 Fringed Literature 》 There is 《 Scold and kill 》 One article . The word "kill" is also a popular online vocabulary , Meaning for “ Praise and flatter excessively , To achieve the goal that the praised person becomes vain and conceited or causes others' disgust ”.

Someone asked ： What is the best way to destroy a person ？ The answer is to leave him idle , Form the habit of being lazy , Step by step fell into the abyss of depravity . As Zeng Guofan said ： A hundred ills , All from lazy students . Laziness is relaxation , Relaxation is not strict , And fun is not sensitive . One place is late, and a hundred places are slack . But this method is only suitable for No ability People who .

For those who have ability, talent and ambition , The quickest and best way to destroy him is another form —— To kill .

Hold him high , Flatter him , Won his virtue and didn't deserve it , In this way, he will have disaster , Then you will make a big mistake , And this mistake will be big enough to make it difficult for him to turn over .

1.2 The essence of killing

（1） To oneself

Make the flattered proud 、 get dizzy with success 、 Relax your vigilance 、 Stagnation and retrogression even lead to degeneration 、 Failure .

（2） To everyone

Make the person being praised form pressure on people or individuals 、 Become the object of envy 、 Become the target of the public , Put the touted in danger .

（3） To your boss

The situation that makes the person being praised create a successful overlord for his company , Urge their superiors to suppress them .

The first 2 Chapter Supporting cases

We are in life , Also be alert to being “ To kill ”. When others flatter you , Be careful , Probably “ To kill ”. Why do you say “ To kill , Is the quickest way to destroy a person ”, Let's illustrate with a few examples ！

2.1 The slain martial Saint Guan Yu ;

Guan Yu, a famous general of Shu Han in the Three Kingdoms period , It is known to all women and children , But he is the representative figure who was praised and killed in history . He once went to the head of Yan Liang among millions of troops , Famous all over the world , Because of his merits, he was awarded the Marquis of Hanshou Pavilion by the imperial court . After becoming famous, Guan Yu , My heart began to be complacent , Vanity keeps expanding .

First, Cao Cao took the initiative to kill Guan Yu ！

He courted corporal Guan Yu , Highly valued , Sincerely want to stay Guan Yu , But Guan Yu was determined to go to Liu Bei . Cao Cao Ming knew that Guan Yu was leaving , Continue to reward , This makes Guan Yu feel that he is not an ordinary person .

Later, Zhugeliang passively killed Guan Yu ！

Guan Yu heard that Ma Chao, the fierce general of the Xiliang army, took refuge in Liu Bei , He was also named general Zuo , Not convinced , Be determined to compete with Ma Chao . After Zhugeliang learned about it , Immediately reply and comfort Guan Yu , It can be called flattery ：“ Ma Chao is ferocious , It can be called a generation of heroes , It belongs to tsingy cloth 、 Peng Yue , Can keep pace with Zhang Fei , But it's not as good as your handsome bearded husband .”

Guan Yu finished reading the letter of praise from military master Zhugeliang , immensely proud , He also deliberately handed the contents of the letter to his guest staff for circulation . Guan Yu guards Jingzhou , Like a vassal , Being praised by people around all day , Gradually, I got a little carried away , Even complacent .

Later, Sun Quan sent messengers , Said to marry Guan Yu's daughter . But Guan Yu doesn't know the height , He refused Sun Quan's request , And humiliate the messenger in public , say “ How can a tiger girl marry a dog ”. This completely angered Sun Quan , It also greatly destroyed the Shu Wu alliance set by Liu Bei and Zhugeliang , It is the root of Guan Yu's failure .

The last to kill Guan Yu was Lu Meng, the governor of the eastern Wu ！

Lu Meng replaces Lu Su's class , On the surface, he pretended to be respectful to Guan Yu , He also deliberately touted how brave Guan Yu was , Establish friendly relations with Guan Yu , So that Guan Yu can lower his psychological defense .

But later , When Guan Yu sent troops to attack Xiangfan City in the Wei Dynasty , Lu Meng of the eastern Wu secretly attacked Jingzhou in the rear of Guan Yu , Guan Yu lost Jingzhou carelessly , Finally, I lost Mai Cheng , Defeated, captured and killed .

So , A person , The more talented , The more we should be vigilant about being killed by people around us .

2.2 The triumph of modern life

（1） Consumers who have been praised

Now all kinds of businesses are thinking hard , Advocate female consumerism , Even feminism , But there is only one purpose , That is to kill women , Let women don't know heaven and earth , I don't know how many catties I have , Then impulse consumption 、 Blind consumption .

（2） Stupid girl who was killed

I once saw a street interview ： The host asked the girl how many betrothal gifts she would give to get married , A girl said it would cost at least 100 million , Another girl said to 290 ten thousand . The host asked why 290 ten thousand , The girl replied ： My ex boyfriend said , If we get married , Will give me 290 A kaleidoscope of gifts .

So someone commented ： Silly girl , This is your boyfriend killing you , He holds you high , No one can afford to marry you , Then you will be single all your life . Maybe , Now more and more leftover women , Is to be in society All kinds of forces win Result , In the end, high cannot be low , Vision is very high, but oneself is very low .

Entrepreneur Shi Yuzhu made some classic remarks ：“ Winning is more terrible than banging , Bang Sha looks at a big stick coming , You are prepared , And it's your arm 、 Thighs or buttocks , The final result is trauma . But killing directly damages the brain , People get hurt when they enjoy it , It's terrible ！”

So , People have self-knowledge , Knew who Ming ！ When others flatter you , Never take it seriously , Be careful , Because this is likely to be “ To kill ”. friends , How do you think about winning the game? Welcome to leave messages and interact in the comment area below ！